Summertime… and we think it's time for another London Christians party very soon…
So save the date Saturday 30th August for a mega party, with our friends at Christian Connection! Full details coming up soon!
In the meantime, enjoy the summer! And ladies don't forget - the church male/female ratio being what it is, there are many believing men outside of "church" circles! And also remember - there is no "gift of singleness"! Only a rare gifting to remain celibate, which you don't have! (If you did, you wouldn't be visiting the London Christians website!) And we recommend putting Debbie Maken's "Getting Serious About Getting Married: Rethinking the gift of singleness" at the head of your summer reading list; male or female, it is essential reading for singles!
We love you all, so have a great summer 'til we meet again! x
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"I just wanna feel real love fill the home that I live in" sings Robbie Williams; "Never be lonely" and "Fill my little world right up" sings The Feeling; "Everybody needs somebody to love" sang The Blues Brothers. Don't you need a Valentine for Life? If so (and we don't believe you if you say you don't!), then...
The Search For Your Valentine…
…starts by clicking HERE!
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Feedback from the Valentine's Party, 8th February:
"Hi, this is just to say a massive thank you for organising Friday night. I really enjoyed it and thought there was a very good buzz about the place. On a personal level, I really didn't want it to end. Events like that really do make a difference - I saw lots of people exchanging details etc but it also gives a big encouragement that there are other normal, sane, single christians out there."
"My friend and I enjoyed the party very much. We will look out for your other events."
"I wanted to say thanks for last night, it was a good night."
"Thanks for organising the Valentine's Party, which was a great event."
"I attended the valentine party and found the atmosphere was great."
"I am just writing to say thank you for organising such a good party on Friday night. The venue is excellent, people really appreciated being able to use the pool tables. The disco was excellent. It was just a pity the men are so slow at asking the girls out!! I do hope you do use the venue again as it works well."
"I just wanted to say, although I didn't meet the girl of my dreams last night I still had a really good night, thanks for organising it, I'll look forward to the next one :)"
"Really enjoyed the feb8th do in binney street"
"Meant to thank you for the great party we had and I enjoyed myself thoroughly. Thank you once more and look forward to seeing you next time. Great job and God bless you always."
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On behalf of Christian Events and LastFriday, thanks to everyone that came to the talk by DAVID MURROW, author of "WHY MEN HATE GOING TO CHURCH".
Because of the continuing negligence of church leaders regarding outreach to men, London Christians strongly suggests that in addition to attending Christian social events, Christian women should also attend secular social events, with a view to finding a believing man who may simply be "unchurched".
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And for your browsing pleasure, there are some very challenging views on the whole "gift of singleness" business, and the urgent need to outreach to men, on the following blog. Not everything on there is the view of London Christians. But we really think there is a lot that is worth considering:
The "gift of singleness" blog!
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Feedback from our November party:
"Thanks for inviting us yesterday. I think that it was a success! Well done! You are doing a great job!"
"I had a great time at the party Saturday night -- especially loved the dancing. Again, thanks so much for a great evening!"
"Many thanks for the party which was a great success."
"I did enjoy the party and thought the venue was great!"
"Please keep me on your mailing list. The event on Saturday night at 'Corks' was excellent."
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Feedback from the "There's snow party like the London Christians Christmas Party" on 9th December:
“Just a quick note to say thank you for a lovely party on Saturday night - I really enjoyed it and, although the previous one I had been to was fun, there was something quite special about this Sat”
“GREAT NIGHT!!!"
"A very relaxing, fun, entertaining evening"
“I must say there was an equal turnout of men and women and I think a few men were attempting to speak to ladies!”
"Thanks for a great party last night! The night seemed to go very quickly!"
"We all had a great time at the party"
"Just wanted to say a big THANK YOU for all you are doing in arranging events – it really is much appreciated. Although I was uncertain at first, I do feel encouraged that after three such events, I AM meeting new guys and there are new relationships developing"
“I must say I have been to a few singles events in London and there was nowhere near that number of men there. I believe there is something in the air and there is a release for people to step into, to enter their destiny. It is starting to happen, early days yet but God will bring it to pass”
"Everybody had a great time and several people (male and female) left the party having met people from other churches that they will be seeing again on their own"
"London Christians is working :-)"
"Many thanks for the event on Saturday. It was great to be part of it."
"I really enjoyed the Christmas party last Saturday. I'm looking forward to the next London Christians event"
"Just to say thanks so much for a great party on the 9th - we all enjoyed it"
"I had a wonderful time @ your last event"
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Feedback from "Everybody Needs Somebody To Love" on 21st October:
“Just to say thank you for an awesome event on Saturday night – I had a great time, and thought there was a really good vibe there – I even 'quizzed' a few of the folks there and everyone seemed really positive. In fact every person I spoke to was from a different church, which is really rich. All the best with the incredible work you are doing.”
"Just a quick msg to say thanks and well done for a fun evening on Saturday - keep up all the good work!"
"We had a fabulous time and it seriously exceeded my expectations"
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Feedback from the Take it to the Bridge! party on 23rd September:
"It was good fun on Saturday night...lots of mingling and no pressured situations...! My friend who I dragged along and says she hates 'those kinds of things' enjoyed herself because it was easy going and easy to chat with people. It was a good venue and a fab atmosphere. Looking forward to the next party"
"Thank you for the party. It was very nice, the venue was lovely and the music was great. Well done once again"
"Many thanks for organising the party on Saturday night, which I really enjoyed and felt was very successful"
"I enjoyed Saturday's party very much"
"Well done for a fantastic atmosphere yesterday, everyone really had fun"
"I wish to commend you for the wonderful London Christians party. I attended the one hosted at the Borough Bar at London Bridge and I will say it was cool"
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Feedback from the Summer Night's Dream party on 19th August:
"Wow! What a party! It's wonderful to see a group of Christians having such FUN together! The live music was excellent and the other music pitched just right. The venue is cool and was nicely decorated. It was also SO encouraging to see the party advertised as having 'a sprinkling of romance' and some evidence of guys actually responding to this! That's what we desperately need - there's far too much singleness around! Congratulations London Christians - keep it up!"
“I just wanted to say thanks for a great night on Saturday – I came with five friends and we all had a ball! Keep up the great work and I look forward to the next event - hope to come with more recruits!”
"Thanks for organising such an enjoyable evening last night. I look forward to attending other events. The 'Vicar' was something else!!! Really believed in him on first arriving!!!"
“Thank you very much for the party, I really enjoyed myself”
“Well done on organising London Christians. Please add my name to the mailing list so I hear of future events”
“It was such a good party on Saturday; what a lovely atmosphere!! Just to say thank you for the wonderful ministry in which you serve God and His people so diligently. It is so nice to learn that you pray over the list of attendees”
“Just to say well done and a big thank you for organising Saturday night. It was the first time I have been to one of these events, and I was not sure about the whole thing, but I had a really good time”
“It would be criminal of me not to commend you on Saturday's event. The music, in my mind, played a central part in the evening – it was simple, entertaining and of an excellent quality... something to focus on and thoroughly enjoy and be a part of! I brought my cousin from New York and was a bit apprehensive about taking her to an event that I myself had never been to – worried that we couldn’t compete with the legendary New York social scene and that she would not enjoy herself. Needless to say, you scored – big time!!! She loved the whole idea, the intimacy of it and the openness of people to step out and dance to their hearts’ delight. And the music? I needn't say more!! I myself had fun – all apprehension has now been thrown to the wind and I will certainly be coming for more quality nights out with you guys!”
"I had a lovely evening and look forward to the next one"
"That event was a lot of fun. When is the next one?"
"Just wanted to let you know that my friends and I had a great night. We will definitely recommend your next party to our other friends as we really enjoyed ourselves"
"There is a story going round that there was a great party last night and now most of my church want to know where and when the next one is. Once again congratulations on a very good night."
"Great party – well worth recommending. The dance floor was packed with people cheering and clapping. If anyone asked me what it was like, I would say, you missed out mate!"
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Feedback from the Summer in the City party on 22nd July:
"I would like to say how much I enjoyed the party at the Minories Pub on the 22nd July. It was really great to meet other Christians from other backgrounds and church groups. I met some really interesting people and hope to see them again next time I go. A big thank you for organising these events. London Christians is COOL! I'd recommend anyone to come along."
"Can I say that the last event was fantastic and thank you very much for organising this (August) event too"
"Just to say that the July party was well organised, the venue was great, food and drinks even better and I was able to meet and talk with more fellow Christians. Thank you for a great idea and great event. Well done!!"
“It was the first Christian do I've been to and I was pleasantly surprised. A group of us went and we loved how mixed it was – every colour, age and denomination. Great. Nice setting. Fantastic that the BBQ was blazing away all night, and the guy singing sure gave his all, didn't he? Loved the little touches like the heart-shaped confetti on the floor! We enjoyed ourselves – many thanks for organising it and keep up the good work”
"I just wanted to thank you so much for organising a lovely and enjoyable evening. It was so nice. My friend and I had a great time, and I assume a lot of other people had an enjoyable time. The venue was superb and location in the city was fab!! The burgers were yummy and at a reasonable price for everyone - thanks for that!!! Without a doubt we will be going on your next event."
"I am writing to say thank you for organising such a good party on Saturday"
"Thanks very much for the Saturday party; it was lovely and well organised as usual. Well done for the good job"
"I've been to the last two events that you have had and I have been very impressed with the organisation and the venue is great. Keep up the good work"
"I really had a nice time and I would love you to inform me about other events"
"Just wanted to say I thought Sat eve was fab! Well done"
"I arrived on my own so it was a bit daunting but I enjoyed the night: met some nice friendly girls. Thank you for organising it and I hope to come to more events in the future"
"Just wanted to say how much my brother and I enjoyed ourselves on Saturday. It was an excellent venue and a good opportunity to meet new people. Thanks again"
"Last night was really good. It was really great and we had a great time. A lot of people were there and the food was so nice and tasty. Thanks a lot"
"I came to your party yesterday for the first time. Today, I have already emailed about 50 people in my church about your website and events, because I think that it is a very good idea to bring Christians together from the different London and Home Counties churches"
"Just a note to say how much I enjoyed the event last night! The evening had a really nice vibe and it was good to mix and meet with new people. Was very happy to also see old friends who I had not seen in years at the event and generally catch up. Once again, be encouraged with the fantastic, innovative, God inspired idea of these events"
"Thank you for last Saturday, I enjoyed myself at The Minories Pub with fellow Christians"
"This is just to say I had a lovely time at the last social event.
Lovely crowd and I also enjoyed the burgers and the music. I look forward to the next event."
"I really, really enjoyed Saturday night. It was nice to meet new people and chat about everyday life issues. Thank you so much for a wonderful night. I am looking forward to the 19th August"
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Feedback from the World Cup party on 20th June:
"Great idea for a party! It's wonderful to see Christians from different churches getting together to socialise and have fun! The flags, balloons, rattles, England hats and the music really helped to build a party atmosphere, and it was a lovely venue. London Christians' parties are where it's at!"
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We really enjoyed it and we're looking forward to the next one!"
"Great atmosphere and venue"
"Another London Christians triumph!"
"Thanks again for a fun evening yesterday. It was an all round good do and I'm looking forward to hearing about the next event already"
"I really enjoyed the football party - it was good fun"
"Another great night and my friend thought so too. I really enjoyed myself and thought it was a good atmosphere. I am keeping my beady eye out for the July party"
Feedback from the London Christians party on 19th May:
"Just sending a note of thanks and appreciation for all your hard work…The event on Friday was FANTASTIC; a real good balance of fun and friendliness without being overpowering. You can certainly feel God's presence in all of this and it really is good to see a mix of ages, races and sexes…just ENJOYING each other's company…a real achievement given this is happening in central London which often has a reputation for fostering a lonely, artificial environment! I'm sure God's work is at hand as I don't believe I saw one person who looked 'alone' or not having fun...it really really was a very inspiring event!"
"I had a fab time. I absolutely enjoyed myself and met some great people...When I got to church I could not stop talking about it"
"What a fantastic evening last Friday was!! The young lady singing was excellent, I met some lovely people and I thank God who so inspired you to do this"
"The party was fab. Definitely will book for the World Cup party"
"Very enjoyable night again last night!"
"Just a note to say thank you again for organising last night's event. The atmosphere is very friendly and relaxed so people have a great time! :)"
"Just to say thanks very much for a lovely evening. I really enjoyed meeting new people and although it was a bit scary at first, it got easier as the evening went on. I thought the band was excellent - just the right mood and volume! Thanks for having the vision and guts to go for this! I look forward to many more!!"
"I did enjoy the party and I thought it was a great event"
"Thanks for another fun evening"
"Had fab time"
"Thank you, that was a great evening. I hope to be able to attend some more of your events"
"I was so impressed by your well organised event"
"A great way to meet a lot of people, from a lot of different nationalities too – looking forward to the next one!"
"Well done! London Christians rocks!!!!!!!!!!!"
Feedback from the London Christians launch party on 28th April:
"I just wanted to say what a terrific night I had at the Precinct Bar on Friday. I really enjoyed meeting and socialising with other Christians. Please keep me informed about the next London event!"
"I really enjoyed Friday night. I thought the venue was great, the environment was friendly, it was easy for a single person to make friends and the music was good"
"Just to let you know I had a great time on Friday night and would definitely come to another event. I enjoyed the band and found it very easy to talk to lots of people. Keep me posted on future events"
"Congratulations on your first event! I look forward to hearing about your next one!"
"Fun night on Friday. Easy going, good music and good crowd"
"Thanks very much for organizing the event last night. I met some very nice Christians and got the impression that people were mingling very well"
"It was a lovely night. I will definitely come again"
"My thanks to you and your friends for organising such an impressive evening last night. It was really good fun and I had a tremendous time meeting old friends - and some great people I hadn't met before"
"Thank you so much for organising this event. It was great to have a relaxed, friendly environment for Christians to mingle and chat, with enjoyable music. I hope there are many more parties like this to come, and I'll be spreading the word!"
"Really looking forward to the 19th May. I enjoyed the music last time; very much my thing and it was great to have a dance"
"Thank you for organising the event last Friday; it was great and enjoyed by all! I will certainly be going online to book on the next one!"
"The evening was great. My friends were really impressed and they will definitely be coming again. Lots of other friends will be coming next time, as we really did praise it, and rightly so I hasten to add. The people were really relaxed and seemed to enjoy themselves. Me, I am a dancing queen and I like to have a good time, so I loved it!"
"I really enjoyed the band and thought their cover versions were really good. I hope to be at the next event."
"I thoroughly enjoyed myself last time and just to echo what others have said — it was great to mingle and meet other Christians. Look forward to hearing about June's date!"
"Brilliant night on Friday. I met some nice people there. Keeping in touch with one of them in particular"
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'The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."' (Genesis 2: 18)
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Food for thought:
Is Singleness Really A "Gift"?
Just since the 1970s, Christians have been told there is a "gift of singleness", but is it really true? What does the Bible actually say about singleness, and is it really right to call it a spiritual "gift"? How did what was traditionally regarded as a rare gifting for renouncing marriage and living a celibate life, become a widespread gift of "singleness" - within just the time period of our current generation - and what are the repercussions we are seeing today? Are we actually in danger of following our culture rather than the Bible with regard to singleness, and at the same time, super-spiritualising it all in terms of "waiting on the Lord"? Should singles be told to "be content" if they express any desire to be married? Is a fear of commitment being disguised as "seeking God's best"? Does "trusting in the Lord" really mean it is wrong to purposefully try to meet someone for marriage? And if we are single, does that mean it is necessarily "God's will" that we are?
London Christians and Debbie Maken(author of Getting Serious About Getting Married: Rethinking the Gift of Singleness) don't think so! Keep watching this space for updates on the "Singleness is NOT a gift according to the Bible" campaign! ;-)
